While we may not always feel confident sharing our story, we can always choose courage.
I founded Center Stage Connections (CSC) for deeply personal reasons: I believe in the power of stories. Stories connect to our emotions. Our emotions connect us to each other. At work. At home. In life.
I spent a large part of my life struggling with self-doubt. I know what it feels like to listen to the external and internal voices that keep us from trusting ourselves and doing the work we imagine. At some point, we must believe what is on the other side of our fear matters more than what is holding us back. For me, on the other side of fear, are more lasting meaningful connections with others.
High-stakes moments are scary. High-stakes means something different for each of us. You may be an executive seeking to nail a series of pivotal presentations, a medical student preparing to interview for a coveted residency match, or a leader needing team members to speak more confidently and concisely. While each of these moments requires specific professional expertise, each of us wants to show up with presence, clarity, and authenticity.
So how do we show up and step into the best of who we are?
With the help of others. During our lifetime thus far, each of us has had a few people beside us who “get” us. The past and present people who see us for who we truly are or, more importantly, what we could be. One of the most consistently impactful CSC stage-inspired exercises clients engage in calls for reflecting on those relationships–the relationships most influential in how we define ourselves and shape who we are today.
Perhaps you are thinking of someone right now. I encourage you to reach out and let that person know they made a difference in how you see yourself. If you haven’t connected with that person in a while, let them know how they showed you your story matters.
Belief in ourselves (often through the eyes of others) is a transformative thing.
As we take a collective step into 2024, let’s share that support we once received with someone else who needs it. Especially those whose lived experiences are not reflective of our own. Be the person who encourages others to bring their unique voice to the conversation, the meeting, or the board room. Step away from the computer, silence the notifications, or flip that phone over on the table. Be the person who lets someone know their voice matters. Small actions send lasting messages.
Wishing all good things to you, those you hold dear, and those whose stories long to be told at work, at home, and in life…
Julie
julie@centerstageconnections.com