It's a good day for connection...

I like that you ________ and I just wanted you to know that.

We all do better when we feel included and appreciated.  At work. At home. In life. 

When my teens were in grades K-2, their teacher had a tradition.  On each student’s birthday, the class would sit in a circle and the teacher would go around the circle and ask each student to say one nice thing about whoever was the birthday kid.  

I brought a treat in on one of those days, and witnessed this moment.  I have to say, the exercise was so sweet and authentic that the Littles made me teary eyed.  The birthday kid smiled and there were lots of giggles. 

They were all invested in the moment.  Totally authentic.  Each of them was a little vulnerable…when you give or receive a compliment, it can feel that way sometimes. 

That elementary school exercise brings everyone together.  Even if you have your differences with someone.  It’s a moment to start fresh, be present, and connect. 

But you don’t have to wait for someone’s birthday.  Fill in that blank above and give it to a colleague, client, friend, or family member today. Say something true and positive to someone today.  They just might need to hear it.  And you might get back a smile or giggle in return.

And by the way, I am grateful we are connected, and I just wanted you to know that.