#courage

Find Your Tightrope

What does walking a tightrope have to do with telling your business story?

Completing a walk across a tightrope was a requirement before completing my MFA in Acting. 

Required, not because our department head wanted his students to be more marketable as future circus performers. He believed the act of staying on a tightrope, from beginning to end, was analogous to what is required of our mind and body to be on stage. Staying on a tightrope has less to do with athleticism or grace, and more to do with mindset. Being present. Moment by moment. Step by step. Always moving forward.

I learned a valuable lesson over those months of tightrope class. The second I thought of what I was going to have for lunch, recalled an earlier conversation that had left me unsettled, glanced away from the end of the rope, or allowed even a smidge of doubt to enter my mind, I would fall off that rope. Every. Time.

I fell off a lot. A whole lot. But one of the class rules was if you fell off, your turn wasn’t over. You got right back on. Before you could dwell on why you fell off. Just get back on. Find the courage. Be Present. Move forward. Step by step. Moment by moment.

The mind/body experience of walking a tightrope remains with me today in my work at Center Stage Connections, as I support, encourage, and guide others to move their story forward—whether in the form of a high-stakes presentation, a grueling interview process, or team building and messaging. Moving your story forward is not always easy. Internal and external challenges will be there.

If you or your team have fallen off your tightrope, I have many tools and techniques to get you moving forward with focus, presence, courage, intention, and boldness for the business stage.

Why audiences love BOLDness...

“I love the thought of averaging out my lies.”

One of my favorite lines when I played a quirky character in a wacky comedy written in a VERY different era.

She worked as a mailroom clerk in the bowels of a high rise of a large corporation.  Whatever she thought it went straight to her lips and out of her mouth.  Most of these moments were on her lunch break in the cafeteria.  She made it a point to seek out anyone new or someone sitting by themselves. It was the only time in her 8-hour day when she interacted with another human being.

At lunch one day she revealed to an unsuspecting new co-worker (for whom she developed a massive crush) how she keeps from feeling depressed:

"Every day we’re supposed to fill out a worksheet.  With exact daily totals of how many pieces of mail we’ve handled, how many forms filed.  It’s ridiculous.  (whispers) Everybody lies.  You make up numbers!  But the best part comes on Friday when you get to average them out.  I love that.  I love the thought of averaging out my lies.  It’s like some mystical way of arriving at the truth…"

In today’s world, some might call her an “over-sharer.” But I adored her. In spite of her solitary work, or perhaps because of it, all she was looking for were opportunities to connect with others. She was present, authentic, clear, empathetic, and engaged. 

While I am still sorting out the notion that the truth comes from averaging out one’s lies…the actor in me knows that audiences root for a person who is bold and fearless. 

So let this be your call to action to go tap into your inner mailroom clerk and let me know what truth you discover about yourself, your work, or the work you aspire to do. I will be happy to be your audience…encouraging you along the way.

(credit to The Cashier by Glen Merzer)